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GRANDADKNOWS
United Kingdom
At 52,I live currently in Scotland,lived in West Sussex and am from Yorkshire,studied Engineering,Masonary,Carpentary.Once a Chairman Governor.In a County Policy and Development Group,formed to aid life for Carers,the Disabled and Children.A political Election Agent,with an insite into politics and not always impressed.It's a shame we can't do away with Party Politics for a House of Members committed to improve the Country,not the Party.Being in child care I raised four stepchildren and two stepgrandchildren.We have my in-laws,both 80 who live here.Mother-in-law has dementia,and he is struggling to cope.I cared for three children,unofficially,via Social Services and hope to Foster.I am in my second marriage and am lucky to be where I am.We all say things could be better, all wait for that Lottery win,yet we live and must look forward,to stay optomistic. Can I help you? Can you help me? Can we help each other?
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Thursday, 25 June 2009

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To care for, or about, someone you first have to care about yourself. False love cheats everyone.
One child goes MISSING every 10 minutes, lets find these lost soles and save our social responsibilities.

Monday, 18 May 2009

To care for, or about, someone you first have to care about yourself. False love cheats everyone.
For that one child who goes MISSING every 10 minutes, lets find these lost soles and save our social responsibilities.

Thursday, 19 February 2009

TCNS Teen Challenge NE Scotland. Drugs and/or Drink Abuse? HELP.


"Offering FREEDOM from Addiction"
Supported housing for young men and women.
Please check out this site for help, if you have difficulty coping with life, due to a Drink or Drug dependency. A proactive lifeline in nearly 100 different Countries, supporting almost 10,000 people out of their dependencies on Drugs and/or Drink. One of the world's largest drug and alcohol outreaches, operating since 1958.
Their goal is to help people return to society free from self abuse and with a greater understanding of their own worth, encouraging valuable people (you) back to your rightful place.
Dont' let drugs and drink take your life from you, YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT.

"a good place to be"

grandadknows says...
To care for, or about, someone you first have to care about yourself. False love cheats everyone.

One child goes MISSING every 10 minutes, lets find these lost soles and save our social responsibilities.

Monday, 9 February 2009

Everything and Nothing At All: Disabled Parking Abuse

Everything and Nothing At All: Disabled Parking Abuse

To care for, or about, someone you first have to care about yourself.
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Friday, 2 January 2009

DRUGS AND UNBORN BABIES

DRUGS AND UNBORN BABIES - A MOTHER'S WORRY?
Following up on previous research in the conditions for mothers and baby, in a drug related environment. I have discovered a really interesting site "Phoenix House" in the USA has done some incredible research into the whole affects of drugs and pregnant women.
Please use the link to access their site and take a look at the trauma that can fall to baby to carry the burden of DRUGS, even before it has been born.
Mental Disability, disfigurement, small heads, lack of limbs etc etc.
Would you purposely bring a baby into the use of drugs, I don't think so? but year after year babies are born with drug, substance and drink dependencies. Did they ask to be born this way?? NO.
To allow yourself to become vulnerable to rape, sex within a drug, substance related haze could lead to being pregnant - leading to the possible birth of a substance dependant child and all the horrors that entails.
Take a look at your surroundings, can you leave the position your in?; can you control your behaviour?; can you provide for a baby, if one was to "arrive"?. You might feel that drugs are COOL, "they make me feel able to cope with my problems", DO THEY REALLY, HELP?

Drug MISUSE is a one way ticket to a dead end lifestyle, one of exploitation, fear, dependency and abuse (in all its forms).

Take a look back in your life, like you would reset the computer, after a crash, to a time when it worked properly, (if you can) and rewind your life, face your parents, your family, your real friends, and ask for HELP. A simple, gigantic, terrifying, step back to a time in your life when you had a feeling of being in control.
Think about the child, your child, your friend, your family. If we could find a point in our lives when drugs did not infest every corner of our society, we could become a whole community again, caring about everyone around us. We could all have neighbours we trusted and could depend upon and support all who needed it.
"THINK BEFORE YOU DRINK" "SHRUG IT BEFORE YOU DRUG IT".

DO YOU HAVE A STORY?? MORE TO COME ON THIS ISSUE.

Sunday, 28 December 2008


To care for, or about, someone you first have to care about yourself. False love cheats everyone.

You would not want to be "left out in the cold", would you? So why would you want to see some one else out there? Help is there, if you know where to look; can "grandadknows" help you find that help??

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Foster or Kinship Care?? DO YOU HAVE A STORY?


A.R.K. ABERDEENSHIRE RELATIVES OF KINSHIP
CAMPAIGNING TO BALANCE THE RIGHTS OF KINSHIP CARERS AND FOSTER CARERS

Serving the North East of Scotland
EQUALITY FOR CHILDREN IN CARE? WHAT DO YOU GET??

FOSTER CARE
Named Social Worker
Child Psychologist Support
Financial Support to £30,000 per year plus expenses.
Paid excursions, amusements, transport, clothing, refreshment.
Regular core meetings, support.
Educational support.
Household expenses covered.
Travelling expenses.
Support from Scottish Executive to the sum of £800.00 (April 2007)

KINSHIP CARE
Limited Support from Non-designated Social Worker
Financial Support of £30.00/£40.00 per week (if lucky) dependant on post code and Social Worker’s commitment.
£50.00 towards school uniform, if you are able to locate and complete forms.
Support from Scottish Executive to the sum of £500.00 (April 2007)

FOCUS ON KINSHIP
Kinship Care provides immediate integration into the family of the affected child(ren). Less stress, generally on the child(ren). Higher chance for the child(ren) to be brought back into feeling positive about their future. Higher chance for a prolonged care period, to adulthood.
Larger “family” backup system.

FOSTER CARE
WHAT IS ON OFFER TO FOSTER CHILDREN.
Basically a child in Foster Care has the World at their finger tips, every effort is made to provide for the wellbeing and financial needs of that child. The Foster Carer is given an Allowance equal to £137.37 per week for a 16 to 18 year old (varies nationally and locally), plus travelling expenses, clothing allowance, bedding allowance, entertainment allowance, etc.
They have support from a named Social Worker who is there to give guidance and extended access to psychologists, doctors, psychiatrists, behavioural advisors, recreational support networks etc.
If a Foster Carer cannot cope with the child in their care, the child is returned for another one!
Problem Fostered Children are “homed” in establishments which charge the Local Authority £2000.00 per week, per child. A mentally challenged/overly aggressive child would be “homed” at a cost of £8000.00 per week.
Foster children are cared for by “strangers”, establishments, institutions.
What is immediately (generally) missing in the process of Fostering a child? Love, compassion, the intimate knowledge of the family history which can aid a child understand the loss of their parent(s).

SPECIAL NOTE: It is accepted that there are exceptional Foster Parents out there, with exceptional talents but generally, especially a short term fostering would cause extreme stress, strain and emotional turmoil for the child in question. This limiting the chances of a progressive and settled “homing” of the already tragically “broken” personality of the child.

KINSHIP CARE
WHAT IS ON OFFER TO A KINSHIP CARED CHILD
Financially a Kinship Cared for child is totally reliant on the member of family who has taken them in. If the Post Code area is supportive of Kinship caring and Social Workers are inclined to devote time to the needs of a child in Kinship Care, you may receive £30.00/£40.00 per week.
Despite the Human Rights Act and Children’s Acts supporting the equality of financial support for Kinship care, Local Authorities do not recognise their obligations to the Law.
As a Kinship Carer you will have to chase, call, write, telephone and pursue, to receive the minimum of assistance from a delinquent support network, which suggests that they have no funds or are unable to support Kinship Care in the way they support Foster Caring.
The Local Authorities are LEGALLY BOUND to provide, at least, the minimum allowance provided to Foster Carers. This is compounded within Human Right Acts, Children’s Act and numerous surveys and studies conducted over the last five to ten years.
Social Work Departments know Kinship Care provides some 46% of all child care, in “disrupted” families. They know Kinship Care saves the Local Authorities hundreds of thousands, if not millions of pounds, every year. Yet, they continue to exploit this amazing resource to the point of obscenity.
Local Authorities are content to degrade this system of highly skilled carers, yet they are again legally expected to provide official recognition for this service and to financially support Kinship Carers at an equal status.
Kinship cared for children are being neglected by Local Authorities and Social Service Departments, who it seems would rather see a child in a Care “Home” at £2000.00 per week, than reinforce the security and family influences of Kinship Carers.
It is time the Local Authority networks developed an effective strategy to support physically and financially the very people who are providing “proper” homes for unfortunate children.
Kinship Care should receive the recognition it deserves and the service identified as invaluable.
There is a National Network of Kinship Carers who are determined to highlight the illegal and damaging attitudes and strategies of Local Authority Social Service Departments.
It is up to YOU to enforce your rights to the physical and financial support that YOUR Local Authority should lawfully provide. It is up to YOUR Local Authority to respect their own duty to the effort and savings that YOU make for it, by your labours and Kinship Care.

YOU ARE WORTH THEIR SUPPORT, AND THEY KNOW IT!
SCEPTIC TANK - YOU TELL US WHAT YOUR LOCAL AUTHORITY SOCIAL SERVICE DEPARTMENT IS FAILING TO DO FOR YOU – regards Kinship Care.

CONTACT US:
Via:
http://grandadknows.blogspot.com
G.A.P Grandparents as Parents (National)
Email: grandparentsasparents.co.uk
Kindred Spirits – Dumfries
Email:
tuliprippinggale@hotmail.com
PADA/Kinship Carers (Liverpool)
Email: pada@ellergreen0.fsnet.co.uk

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