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Monday, 10 November 2008

RESPECT AND RESPONSIBILITY? WHAT???

RESPECT AND RESPONSIBILITY?? WHAT ARE THEY?

Cambridge University Dictionary Meaning:

RESPECT:

"admiration felt or shown for someone or something that you believe has good ideas or qualities"

Respect yourself, "to have pride in your own qualities or achievements"

RESPONSIBILITY:

adjective; Be responsible for something/doing something to be the person who caused something to happen, especially something bad:Who is responsible for this terrible mess?Last month's bad weather was responsible for the crop failure. Responsibility; Terrorists have claimed responsibility for (= stated that they caused) yesterday's bomb attack.The minister took/accepted full responsibility for (= admitted that he was to blame for) the disaster and resigned. (from Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary).

Respect and responsibility seem to be two of the most neglected WORDS in the British language. Many people now of their existence and know how to say them BUT they do not know how to conduct themselves in a manner that would take these two words into account.

They are major words in the "arsenal" of parental control. Without these words and without the understanding of these words, by Parent and Child alike, we spiral down into anarchy and panic.

Someone showing the respect and responsibility to others that they would expect for themselves will be rewarded by greater respect and approval.

Those who say they do not need approval in their lives are deluded and lacking in character. We all need and seek approval, whether it be from our parents, teachers, friends, work colleagues, children or any other individual. We seek approval to confirm our actions are justified, whether good or bad. It may be, you could gain approval for Assaulting someone, showing disrespect to a work colleague, vandalising some item of public works. Yet when this approval is sort to acknowledge negative actions the extension of this approval remains within a small circle of individuals and feeds the cycle of negative action.

To seek approval for positive action say, saving someone from an accident; assisting a work mate or friend and aiding a family member to achieve harmony within the home and/or neighbourhood, this promotes positive and extensive return to the individual which is acknowledged far wider.

RESPECT and RESPONSIBILITY are indiscriminately linked with approval and are paramount in the cohesion and benefits of a positive social network.

Without these "values" as a bedrock of social behaviour we are bound to a life cycle of progressive mischief and vandalism, in all their forms.

I remain convinced that every person on this earth is a good person, some being mis-directed and mis-guided and others being tolerant and thoughtful to other's needs.

WHAT DO YOU THINK??? DO YOU HAVE A STORY??

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TOO MANY ACHES AND PAINS?

If you suffer from aches and pains it is important to make sure you have established whether these pains are superficial or critical, that is to say, as a result of a knock or bump or are more serious and may be some disabling condition.
Never be afraid or unsure about speaking to your doctor. As the saying goes, "it is better to be sure". Believe me it is always better, my wife and I went five years before we sort help from our doctor, to find out that she was suffering from "fibro-myalgia, angina and high blood-pressure" and I had damage to two areas of my spine and more recently asthma. She ended up in a wheel-chair for three years, only more recently (six years on) being able to walk some times, with great pain.
Never sell yourself short.

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Foster or Kinship Care?? DO YOU HAVE A STORY?

A.R.K. ABERDEENSHIRE RELATIVES OF KINSHIP
CAMPAIGNING TO BALANCE THE RIGHTS OF KINSHIP CARERS AND FOSTER CARERS

Serving the North East of Scotland
EQUALITY FOR CHILDREN IN CARE? WHAT DO YOU GET??

FOSTER CARE
Named Social Worker
Child Psychologist Support
Financial Support to £30,000 per year plus expenses.
Paid excursions, amusements, transport, clothing, refreshment.
Regular core meetings, support.
Educational support.
Household expenses covered.
Travelling expenses.
Support from Scottish Executive to the sum of £800.00 (April 2007)

KINSHIP CARE
Limited Support from Non-designated Social Worker
Financial Support of £30.00/£40.00 per week (if lucky) dependant on post code and Social Worker’s commitment.
£50.00 towards school uniform, if you are able to locate and complete forms.
Support from Scottish Executive to the sum of £500.00 (April 2007)

FOCUS ON KINSHIP
Kinship Care provides immediate integration into the family of the affected child(ren). Less stress, generally on the child(ren). Higher chance for the child(ren) to be brought back into feeling positive about their future. Higher chance for a prolonged care period, to adulthood.
Larger “family” backup system.

FOSTER CARE
WHAT IS ON OFFER TO FOSTER CHILDREN.
Basically a child in Foster Care has the World at their finger tips, every effort is made to provide for the wellbeing and financial needs of that child. The Foster Carer is given an Allowance equal to £137.37 per week for a 16 to 18 year old (varies nationally and locally), plus travelling expenses, clothing allowance, bedding allowance, entertainment allowance, etc.
They have support from a named Social Worker who is there to give guidance and extended access to psychologists, doctors, psychiatrists, behavioural advisors, recreational support networks etc.
If a Foster Carer cannot cope with the child in their care, the child is returned for another one!
Problem Fostered Children are “homed” in establishments which charge the Local Authority £2000.00 per week, per child. A mentally challenged/overly aggressive child would be “homed” at a cost of £8000.00 per week.
Foster children are cared for by “strangers”, establishments, institutions.
What is immediately (generally) missing in the process of Fostering a child? Love, compassion, the intimate knowledge of the family history which can aid a child understand the loss of their parent(s).

SPECIAL NOTE: It is accepted that there are exceptional Foster Parents out there, with exceptional talents but generally, especially a short term fostering would cause extreme stress, strain and emotional turmoil for the child in question. This limiting the chances of a progressive and settled “homing” of the already tragically “broken” personality of the child.

KINSHIP CARE
WHAT IS ON OFFER TO A KINSHIP CARED CHILD
Financially a Kinship Cared for child is totally reliant on the member of family who has taken them in. If the Post Code area is supportive of Kinship caring and Social Workers are inclined to devote time to the needs of a child in Kinship Care, you may receive £30.00/£40.00 per week.
Despite the Human Rights Act and Children’s Acts supporting the equality of financial support for Kinship care, Local Authorities do not recognise their obligations to the Law.
As a Kinship Carer you will have to chase, call, write, telephone and pursue, to receive the minimum of assistance from a delinquent support network, which suggests that they have no funds or are unable to support Kinship Care in the way they support Foster Caring.
The Local Authorities are LEGALLY BOUND to provide, at least, the minimum allowance provided to Foster Carers. This is compounded within Human Right Acts, Children’s Act and numerous surveys and studies conducted over the last five to ten years.
Social Work Departments know Kinship Care provides some 46% of all child care, in “disrupted” families. They know Kinship Care saves the Local Authorities hundreds of thousands, if not millions of pounds, every year. Yet, they continue to exploit this amazing resource to the point of obscenity.
Local Authorities are content to degrade this system of highly skilled carers, yet they are again legally expected to provide official recognition for this service and to financially support Kinship Carers at an equal status.
Kinship cared for children are being neglected by Local Authorities and Social Service Departments, who it seems would rather see a child in a Care “Home” at £2000.00 per week, than reinforce the security and family influences of Kinship Carers.
It is time the Local Authority networks developed an effective strategy to support physically and financially the very people who are providing “proper” homes for unfortunate children.
Kinship Care should receive the recognition it deserves and the service identified as invaluable.
There is a National Network of Kinship Carers who are determined to highlight the illegal and damaging attitudes and strategies of Local Authority Social Service Departments.
It is up to YOU to enforce your rights to the physical and financial support that YOUR Local Authority should lawfully provide. It is up to YOUR Local Authority to respect their own duty to the effort and savings that YOU make for it, by your labours and Kinship Care.

YOU ARE WORTH THEIR SUPPORT, AND THEY KNOW IT!
SCEPTIC TANK - YOU TELL US WHAT YOUR LOCAL AUTHORITY SOCIAL SERVICE DEPARTMENT IS FAILING TO DO FOR YOU – regards Kinship Care.

CONTACT US:
Via: http://grandadknows.blogspot.com
G.A.P Grandparents as Parents (National)
Email: grandparentsasparents.co.uk
Kindred Spirits – Dumfries
Email: tuliprippinggale@hotmail.com
PADA/Kinship Carers (Liverpool)
Email: pada@ellergreen0.fsnet.co.uk

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Monday, 10 November 2008

RESPECT AND RESPONSIBILITY? WHAT???

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